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I know. So why don't we just wait to see how you feel this weekend, or whenever it is that you have time.
Technically Groton is one of these "Special things", But probably you don't see it that way.
So was the Lake house retreat (your thing which you dis-invited me too).
So was any lion dance I invite you to.
So is dinner, when either of us cooks. Neither of those situations have ever really ended pleasantly either.

You don't see it that way, but I do.
That was one of the reasons why I only thought this relationship would work when you mentioned you would want to do Kung Fu. Not that you would be willing to, that you wanted to.
That we could watch lion dance vids together, etc.
But I am getting sidetracked.

You said you'll go to this Groton event, but do you want to? To look at paintings together, like a date.
If it is a favor, then forget it because you will be tired and feel unappreciated at the end of it.
I need to know sooner rather than later because it affects my plans for getting to the performance and what I will perform. I have to begin performing at 7:00pm. The school is about an hour or so away, with rush hour traffic it can take longer. Come to think of it, let's just make it like this. I'm going to go by myself. I can give you the address of the school if you want to meet me there. That way you don't have a responsibility to go. But you are still more than welcome to.

The only time things have worked are when we happen to be hanging out and then we go to this place or that place (led by you, and not following my lead) This happened in the beginning and last week. (despite what you say about this week being bad.) You do your thing and I follow. Then eventually you say you want me to call shots or something. I call them, things will go well. But then you will get upset about something. Pick anything, and then I have to go to what you want to do, but you don't know.

You will be busy every day this week. That's life.
You will be busy studying on the weekend. That is also life.
If one of the two mornings or nights of the weekend you want to go out, or want me to come over to hang out, then call me up and we can hang out.